Posts : 302
Join date : 2020-09-28
Age : 55
Location : Worland, WY. 82401
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Yes, I am still here. Just so much to deal with. Another death. This time my mother in law. Well, I'm divorced now but I'm still family and loved her so so much. My heart is just so broken. I don't know... So is my ex-husbands and my ex-sister in law. It feels strange saying ex all the time. Because I'm still in contact with my ex - Joe.
Anyway, yes a Covid-19 death that could have very easily have been avoided. I just can not figure out what is wrong with people; I just really really can't. [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.][You must be registered and logged in to see this link.][You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]
My niece and her father (oldest son and grand daughter to M.I.L.) live on the property. She has 29 acres.
My niece gets covid from school. my ex-B.I.L. doesn't hesitate taking her to the dr. She gets breathing treatments etc... And my ex BIL thinks its a good idea for a 14 year old covid positive teenager to go stay with her 78 year old grandmother. Laying on the couch day after day. Then my MIL Nona gets it (she thinks). But BIL doesn't bother to take her to the hospital or anything.
Never mind the fact that they live like 30 feet from one another and she did NOT need to be in Nona's. She could have stayed at home. She's a teenager!! Not an infant. And if it was so important for her to be watched her father should have done that instead of going to work!!
So, for 3 days the rest of the kids couldn't get ahold of my MIL. I wish I had known. I would have went to town & took her myself!
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So, she died.
I HATE THEM I HATE THEM I HATE THEMThen they start driving around her vehicles, her son takes her vehicle to Casper to have the respirator shut off without even talking to his siblings. Starts moving in to her house that night.
Some of her jewelry has been handed out. And he and his ex-wife have been over there just taking whatever they want.
It's a huge mess. No Will or anything. So since they have been so insensitive the other 2 siblings are going to fight for her estate. Apparently its illegal to just move in and start going through someone's belongings before the court has had a chance to evaluate the worth of everything and collect money for any outstanding medical bills etc...
I don't like feeling so hurt and hateful. I just don't know how to get rid of it. Maybe its part of grief. I don't know. I've not been through loosing a parent yet. I'm not liking it non too much. If someone is reading this, take a lesson from my families experiences and write your living will today! I'm going to.
I'm grateful I won't have to go through this with my parents.
My sister and I won't be fighting and grabbing. Nothing will have to go through court. Our parents almost have everything finalized for us, in their passing...